Child-on-child sexual abuse within families must be understood, and we will do our best
Child-on-child sexual abuse within families must be understood, and we will do our best
Trauma has many direct effects of the mind and the body. There are effects on the structures of the brain, hormones, and neurotransmitters especially in those with chronic and/or childhood trauma, that can be seen and measured. Including the work done in the ACE studies. However, many symptoms often get dismissed as being “all in your head”, and we will talk about some of those symptoms here.
Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, psychological, or technological actions or threats of actions or other patterns of coercive behavior that influence another person within an intimate partner relationship. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, injure, or wound someone.(US Department of Justice)
The trauma responses are neurophysiological; they are not bad or good. They happen without us choosing what to do. These responses help us survive. Healthy activation of these stress response systems is predictable, moderate and controllable. (Gobbel, 2023). When it's not it dysregulates us and can cause trauma
The structure of this advice was based on the article by HelpGuide.org EducationRelaxation TechniquesIn The Moment Coping SkillsBasic Calm Breathing:2-to-1 BreathingCyclical SighingB.O.L.R.A.IBody EngagementDARE MethodDefuse AllowRun towards itEngageSelf-CareExerciseSleepTrigger FoodsSupport NetworksConclusionCitations: Panic attacks are stressful, overwhelming and can become disrupting to normal life. They are relatively common, even more so for those of us with a history … Continue reading Coping Skills: Panic Attacks
Panic attacks are episodes of severe overwhelming fear. Symptoms develop fast and reach their peak within 10 minutes. They rarely last more than an hour, typically lasting for 20 to 30 minutes.
It's really common to feel very confused and unsure about where we can start in our healing journey. Intense emotions of any kind make it hard to even know what we can or should do to begin. Everyone's healing journey and what's right for them is going to be hard. But some of what is … Continue reading Ideas To Begin Trauma Healing
An emotional flashback is when we are triggered into living in the emotional/psychological state we experienced during our traumatic childhood experiences.
Boy in the WindowI Survived, So Can You By James I was born in a beautiful little town in Belfast, Northern Ireland. The first nine years of my life were wonderful. However, in 1967, my childhood was abruptly ruined by my best friend’s older brother. Often, when I would go to play at my best … Continue reading A Survivor’s Story
Child abusers exist across races and gender. Understanding what is behind sexual abuse can help us more effectively prevent sexual violence. As well as just give victims power and understand what their abuser was doing.Â